The Friends of Allah Have No Need for Flattery or Servitude
Addressed to: Khān-i-Khānān (may Allah have mercy on him)
Preface:
In the preceding letter, since the importance of etiquette was emphasized and it was stated that disrespect leads to deprivation, it may occur to an immature mind: “Why would the Shaykh stress respect for himself? Do not the friends of Allah consider themselves insignificant, let alone call others to revere them?”
To dispel such a misconception, the Shaykh clarified: Yes, the righteous among the Ummah of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ are free from pretension. But “arrogance toward the arrogant is a form of charity” (al-takabbur maʿa al-mutakabbirīn ṣadaqah). It is narrated that when someone said about Shah Naqshband (may Allah sanctify his secret) that he appeared proud, he replied:
“My pride is a dignity bestowed by Allah.”
Therefore, it is foolishness to consider these mat-clad saints as lowly or insignificant. Rather, to ignore the God-given honor they carry is sheer ignorance.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Many a disheveled, dusty person is turned away at the doors, but if he swears by Allah, Allah fulfills it.”
Poetic Verse:
“I expressed only a little of my heart’s grief before you, fearing it might hurt you — otherwise, there was much to say.”
Translation (continued):
Though these words may sound bitter, you have no shortage of flatterers—suffice with them. Expect no flattery from us.
Know this: the purpose of associating with the poor (fuqarā) is to be made aware of one’s hidden faults and inner flaws. Be assured, what is said is not to offend, but to sincerely advise and offer heartfelt concern.
Al-khayr fīmā ṣanaʿa Allāh Subḥānahū — Goodness lies in what Allah has willed.